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		<title>Distraction:Flailing::Denial:Finishing</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[(Title format derived from SAT analogies&#8211;it must be PSAT time because this post is drawing over half my traffic.) 
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When it comes to life, you certainly get your money&#8217;s worth!

-Karl Klaesius (friend &#38; mentor)
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Life is full. Of opportunities. For success. Or failure.But most often. Simply distraction.
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A particular quote keeps showing up in my life:
Be prepared [...]


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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>(Title format derived from SAT analogies&#8211;it must be PSAT time because <a href="http://www.jeffwidman.com/blog/2006/11/16/the-magical-40-national-merit-finalist-essay/" >this post</a> is drawing over half my traffic.) </p>
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<blockquote><p><a href="http://www.jeffwidman.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2008/10/flailing.jpg" ><img style="border-right: 0px; border-top: 0px; margin: 0px 30px 0px 0px; border-left: 0px; border-bottom: 0px" height="184" alt="flailing" src="http://www.jeffwidman.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2008/10/flailing-thumb.jpg" width="244" align="left" border="0"></a>When it comes to life, you certainly get your money&#8217;s worth!</p>
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<p>-<a href="http://www.apics.org/about/bod.htm" onclick="javascript:pageTracker._trackPageview('a/http://www.apics.org/about/bod.htm');">Karl Klaesius</a> (friend &amp; mentor)</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>Life is full. <br />Of opportunities. <br />For success. Or failure.<br />But most often. Simply distraction.</p>
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<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>A particular quote keeps showing up in my life:</p>
<blockquote><p><strong>Be prepared for success.</strong></p>
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<p>-<a href="http://www.hpsolutions.com/" onclick="javascript:pageTracker._trackPageview('a/http://www.hpsolutions.com/');">Steve Brock</a> (at a <a href="http://www.kiros.org/" onclick="javascript:pageTracker._trackPageview('a/http://www.kiros.org/');">KIROS</a> breakfast)</p>
<p>Steve tells this to his clients all the time. So often, they prep for failure&#8211;emotionally, architecturally, and financially. Not a bad thing. But they fail to prep for success. <em>So do we.</em></p>
<p>With success comes attention&#8230; and distractions. <br />But the people who consistently accomplish remain focused on the fundamentals. They do, rather than talk. </p>
<p>Recently, I brainstormed how to leverage some unique relationships I&#8217;d built&#8211;but I kept running into a brick wall. Eventually, I wordsmithed my own memorable quote: </p>
<blockquote><p>An abundance of resources does not constitute a solution.</p>
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<p>Aidan <a href="http://twonotesahead.wordpress.com/2008/09/03/what-problem-are-you-trying-to-solve-and-why-is-it-a-problem/" onclick="javascript:pageTracker._trackPageview('a/http://twonotesahead.wordpress.com/2008/09/03/what-problem-are-you-trying-to-solve-and-why-is-it-a-problem/');">explains more</a>.</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>When it comes to social media best practices, I&#8217;ve been tempted to think that meeting more people (face-to-face, phone, or Facebook) automagically solves problems. I&#8217;ve learned it automatically creates distractions. </p>
<p><strong>Sometimes, preparing for success means learning to politely say no. Even in social media.</strong> </p>
<p>(<a href="http://charliehoehn.com/2008/09/29/social-media-marketing-best-practices/" onclick="javascript:pageTracker._trackPageview('a/http://charliehoehn.com/2008/09/29/social-media-marketing-best-practices/');">Charlie</a>, you better start practicing!)</p>


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		<description><![CDATA[Two days ago, my sister and I were talking over the phone: 
&#34;Jeff, I&#8217;m going to these parties with our highschool friends, and they all ask about you. [Thanks guys!] I try to explain, only I&#8217;m not really sure&#8230; What is TechStars and what are you doing there?&#34;
Well Michelle, here&#8217;s the answer.
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Two days ago, my sister and I were talking over the phone: </p>
<p>&quot;Jeff, I&#8217;m going to these parties with our highschool friends, and they all ask about you. [Thanks guys!] I try to explain, only I&#8217;m not really sure&#8230; What is <a href="http://www.techstars.org" onclick="javascript:pageTracker._trackPageview('a/http://www.techstars.org');">TechStars</a> and what are you doing there?&quot;</p>
<p>Well <a href="http://michellewidman.com" onclick="javascript:pageTracker._trackPageview('a/http://michellewidman.com');">Michelle</a>, here&#8217;s the answer.</p>
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		<title>Even basic rhythms take practice</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[ Marketing is a delicate craft.    A rhythmic balance between planning and executing. 
There are overnight growth wonders.   (The hockey stick pattern&#8211;think Twitter.)    
But creating a world-class product cannot happen overnight.     By definition. It takes time, user-testing, iterations.    (How many [...]


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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong><a href="http://www.jeffwidman.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2008/08/91337745-5594e577744.jpg" ><img style="border-right: 0px; border-top: 0px; margin: 0px 25px 0px 0px; border-left: 0px; border-bottom: 0px" height="219" alt="91337745_5594e57774" src="http://www.jeffwidman.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2008/08/91337745-5594e57774-thumb4.jpg" width="352" align="left" border="0" /></a> Marketing</strong> is a delicate craft.    <br />A <strong>rhythmic balance</strong> between planning and executing. </p>
<p>There are overnight growth wonders.   <br />(The <a href="http://www.jleung.com/main/blog-entry/2007/06/04/what-is-a-hockey-stick-curve" onclick="javascript:pageTracker._trackPageview('a/http://www.jleung.com/main/blog-entry/2007/06/04/what-is-a-hockey-stick-curve');">hockey stick pattern</a>&#8211;think Twitter.)    </p>
<p>But creating a world-class product cannot happen overnight.     <br /><strong>By definition</strong>. It takes time, user-testing, iterations.    <br />(How <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/IPod_nano" onclick="javascript:pageTracker._trackPageview('a/http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/IPod_nano');">many generations</a> of iPod Nano&#8217;s?)    </p>
<p>Truly, it is a journey of a thousand miles.     <br />Launch. A little off beat. Improve. Now.    </p>
<p>These are excellent first steps. (Sometimes the first step is easy. Sometimes not.) </p>
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<li>&lt;Pause&gt; How <strong>are you adding value</strong> for your users? </li>
<li>Focus on <strong>substance, then style</strong>. Over the past few weeks, I&#8217;ve critiqued <a href="http://www.techstars.org" onclick="javascript:pageTracker._trackPageview('a/http://www.techstars.org');">TechStars</a> investor pitches. As a student of <a href="http://www.presentationzen.com/" onclick="javascript:pageTracker._trackPageview('a/http://www.presentationzen.com/');">Garr Reynolds</a>, I&#8217;m quick to watch slide design, <a href="http://ben.casnocha.com/2008/06/communication-l.html" onclick="javascript:pageTracker._trackPageview('a/http://ben.casnocha.com/2008/06/communication-l.html');">smiling</a>, and body-movements (Never move without a purpose. Never hold still without a purpose.) But listening to <a href="http://www.coloradostartups.com/" onclick="javascript:pageTracker._trackPageview('a/http://www.coloradostartups.com/');">David Cohen</a> give feedback taught me to listen for the underlying story-line before worrying about the delivery. (Thanks David!)</li>
<li>Speaking of listening, lately I&#8217;ve noticed brilliant people spouting off a lot of smart ideas. But <strong>relatively few have the wisdom and self-control to listen thoroughly, </strong>before giving advice. While the shotgunners are valuable advisors, the snipers are true gold. </li>
<li>Tap into the <a href="http://sethgodin.typepad.com/seths_blog/2008/03/where-to-find-g.html" onclick="javascript:pageTracker._trackPageview('a/http://sethgodin.typepad.com/seths_blog/2008/03/where-to-find-g.html');">brainstorming power</a> of millions&#8211;a <a href="http://www.flickr.com/search/?q=simple%20marketing&amp;w=all" onclick="javascript:pageTracker._trackPageview('a/http://www.flickr.com/search/?q=simple%20marketing&amp;w=all');">Flickr search I ran</a> for a new project surprised me with the apparent <em>lack</em> of brand potential.</li>
<li>Do you know <strong>how to <em>quickly </em>make it easy for customers to find you?</strong> (<a href="http://delicious.com/jeffwidman/SEO" onclick="javascript:pageTracker._trackPageview('a/http://delicious.com/jeffwidman/SEO');">SEO for podcasts</a>.) When people link to other sites, they often use the site&#8217;s name. The words people use when linking to you factors heavily into the Google algorithm. For an upcoming project, I used this social engineering factoid to pick a brand/domain name. </li>
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<p><strong>&quot;Do more. Faster.&quot;</strong> &#8212; Painted above David Cohen&#8217;s office doorway.</p>
<p>Now.</p>


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I didn&#8217;t want to post this. It&#8217;s basic. We forget. That&#8217;s why it&#8217;s worth your time. 
Last week, a guy I&#8217;d never met tweeted that he&#8217;d spend a half-hour meeting with any Seattle-ite willing to drive him to the airport. 
In that brief conversation, Dave McClure used words like:
Customer acquisitionUser engagementOrganic growthViralSEOIntimidating
Okay, I added the [...]


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<p>I didn&#8217;t want to post this. It&#8217;s basic. We forget. That&#8217;s why it&#8217;s worth your time. </p>
<p><a href="http://www.jeffwidman.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2008/08/image1.png" ><img style="border-top-width: 0px; border-left-width: 0px; border-bottom-width: 0px; margin: 0px 35px 0px 0px; border-right-width: 0px" height="231" alt="image" src="http://www.jeffwidman.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2008/08/image-thumb1.png" width="197" align="left" border="0"></a>Last week, a guy I&#8217;d never met tweeted that he&#8217;d spend a half-hour meeting with any Seattle-ite willing to drive him to the airport. </p>
<p>In that brief conversation, <a href="http://500hats.typepad.com/" onclick="javascript:pageTracker._trackPageview('a/http://500hats.typepad.com/');">Dave McClure</a> used words like:</p>
<p><em>Customer acquisition<br /></em><em>User engagement<br />Organic growth<br />Viral<br />SEO<br />Intimidating</em></p>
<p>Okay, I added the last one. Now don&#8217;t get me wrong&#8211;Dave is a brilliant (and friendly) guy who gets stuff done. However, I was reminded&#8230;</p>
<p>Acquiring customers in a scalable fashion is tremendously important. It&#8217;s called &#8220;being efficient&#8221; and if you don&#8217;t figure it out, you&#8217;ll go bankrupt. But I wonder&#8211;<strong>how often do we focus on the tool instead of the goal?</strong> (Think <a href="http://www.listible.com/list/gtd-software" onclick="javascript:pageTracker._trackPageview('a/http://www.listible.com/list/gtd-software');">GTD software programs</a>. Marketers are <a href="http://www.google.com/search?q=social+media+marketing&amp;ie=utf-8&amp;oe=utf-8&amp;aq=t&amp;rls=org.mozilla:en-US:official&amp;client=firefox-a" onclick="javascript:pageTracker._trackPageview('a/http://www.google.com/search?q=social+media+marketing&amp;ie=utf-8&amp;oe=utf-8&amp;aq=t&amp;rls=org.mozilla:en-US:official&amp;client=firefox-a');">not immune</a>.)</p>
<p>Last Sunday, <a href="http://www.powrightbetweentheeyes.typepad.com/" onclick="javascript:pageTracker._trackPageview('a/http://www.powrightbetweentheeyes.typepad.com/');">Andy Nulman</a> gave me his definition of marketing: </p>
<blockquote><p>A lot of people forget that it&#8217;s more than just telling a story, it&#8217;s about a relationship&#8211;between a customer and a business. A win-win relationship.</p>
</blockquote>
<p>I used to wonder&#8211;<strong>why do we focus on the tool instead of the goal? <br /></strong>Anything you create by yourself is a tool.<br />Relationships require two groups.<br />That&#8217;s why. Difficulty.</p>
<p>Marketing Tools.<br />Brainstorm.<br />Create.<br />Use.</p>
<p>But don&#8217;t let people become numbers. Ever. <br /><strong>(They won&#8217;t let you.)</strong></p>


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Today begins a month and a half of traveling adventures&#8230; My upcoming itinerary: 
&#160;&#160;&#160; -August: Boulder, CO. http://www.TechStars.org/&#160;&#160;&#160; -August 25: Road trip home. Boulder&#8211;&#62;Seattle.&#160;&#160;&#160; -Sept 2-5: Boston, MA. http://www.businessofsoftware.org/&#160;&#160;&#160; -Sept 5-12: Washington, DC. Visiting a friend/backpacking.&#160;&#160;&#160; -Sept 12-17: Kansas City, MO. http://www.apics.org/education/conference/
Then back to Redmond for a few weeks&#8230;
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I enjoy blogging. I enjoy meeting people.
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If [...]


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<p>Today begins a month and a half of traveling adventures&#8230; <br />My upcoming itinerary: </p>
<p>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; -August: Boulder, CO. <a href="http://www.TechStars.org/" onclick="javascript:pageTracker._trackPageview('a/http://www.TechStars.org/');">http://www.TechStars.org/</a><br />&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; -August 25: Road trip home. Boulder&#8211;&gt;Seattle.<br />&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; -Sept 2-5: Boston, MA. <a href="http://www.businessofsoftware.org/" onclick="javascript:pageTracker._trackPageview('a/http://www.businessofsoftware.org/');">http://www.businessofsoftware.org/</a><br />&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; -Sept 5-12: Washington, DC. Visiting a friend/backpacking.<br />&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; -Sept 12-17: Kansas City, MO. <a href="http://www.apics.org/education/conference/" onclick="javascript:pageTracker._trackPageview('a/http://www.apics.org/education/conference/');">http://www.apics.org/education/conference/</a>
<p>Then back to Redmond for a few weeks&#8230;
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>I enjoy blogging. <br />I enjoy meeting people.</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>If you want to connect, drop me a line: <a href="mailto:jeff@jeffwidman.com">jeff@jeffwidman.com</a></p>


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		<description><![CDATA[It&#8217;s been 5 weeks since my last post&#8211;I was burned out&#8230; I&#8217;m refreshed now.&#160; I can once again look at the trees, feel the wind, and say, &#8220;Thank God&#8211;I&#8217;m alive!&#8221; 
Thanks for patiently waiting. 
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I&#8217;ve asked myself why I blog. Simple. Passion demands an outlet. 
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My friend Delaney recently asked my thoughts on blogging.
I&#8217;m concerned [...]


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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>It&#8217;s been 5 weeks since my last post&#8211;I was burned out&#8230; I&#8217;m refreshed now.&nbsp; I can once again look at the trees, feel the wind, and say, &#8220;Thank God&#8211;I&#8217;m alive!&#8221; </p>
<p>Thanks for patiently waiting. </p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p><strong>I&#8217;ve asked myself why I blog. <br />Simple. <br /></strong><strong>Passion demands an outlet</strong>. </p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>My friend Delaney recently asked my thoughts on blogging.</p>
<blockquote><p>I&#8217;m concerned about staying on a particular topic, because I have a wide variety of interests, and aren&#8217;t blogs supposed to stick to a specific topic?&nbsp;
<p>The other aspect that I&#8217;m worried about is making it something worthwhile for other people to read&#8211; Any tips on that? </p>
</blockquote>
<p><em>Write with your reader in mind. <a href="http://ben.casnocha.com/" onclick="javascript:pageTracker._trackPageview('a/http://ben.casnocha.com/');">Ben Casnocha</a> writes from a Gen Y perspective focused on thought-provoking stuff for the intelligent. I write about marketing from an ethical, story-telling emphasis on being world-class. In business speak, you can focus vertically or horizontally. Vertical is many topics, targeted toward one demographic. Horizontal is one topic, many demographics. For myself, I&#8217;ve chosen horizontal. Marketing is my passion. It&#8217;s a place I connect with other passionate marketers&#8211;<a href="http://www.johnpadams.com/" onclick="javascript:pageTracker._trackPageview('a/http://www.johnpadams.com/');">corporate</a>, <a href="http://alphabet-garten.blogspot.com/" onclick="javascript:pageTracker._trackPageview('a/http://alphabet-garten.blogspot.com/');">niche booksellers</a>, <a href="http://globalized.wordpress.com/" onclick="javascript:pageTracker._trackPageview('a/http://globalized.wordpress.com/');">students</a>, <a href="http://www.trevormauch.com/" onclick="javascript:pageTracker._trackPageview('a/http://www.trevormauch.com/');">entrepreneurs</a>, <a href="http://www.michaelchaffin.com/" onclick="javascript:pageTracker._trackPageview('a/http://www.michaelchaffin.com/');">hoteliers</a>, etc.</em>
<p><em></em>
<p><em>Know that ultimately your passion will come from you&#8211;and that&#8217;s what will sustain you through blogging when you get bored, writers block, etc. So ask yourself why you want to write. Than ask yourself what problems you can help solve for others. Then find where the two intersect. And start writing there. Write about what interests you. At the same time, respect your readers&#8211;take the time to make each post well-written, concise, and worth their time to read. Make sense? Your drive + their time = good blogging.</em>
<p><em>Recognize that some people blog just to work through thoughts in their own head&#8211;that&#8217;s part of why I blog about business, to cement internally my philosophy of marketing. But I always delete what doesn&#8217;t add value for my readers.</em></p>


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		<title>Still here…</title>
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The time here [...]


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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Despite the silence, I&#8217;m still here&#8230; Working at a camp in North Dakota for the past one and a half weeks&#8211;I&#8217;ll be here through the end of next week. </p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>While I originally intended to post here, the 26.4 kbps has stifled my online presence&#8211;takes 15 minutes just to upload a blog post! </p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>The time here has been well spent in reflection, mentoring young men, and being offline. </p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>See you in a week and a half!</p>


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The rest of us are tempted. By definition, a good marketer is an expert in creating WOW experiences. We understand the importance of a great story. But sometimes&#8230;&#8230;it&#8217;s impossible to surpass customer expectations&#8230; &#8230;the competition has a better product&#8230;&#8230;the deadline won&#8217;t be met&#8230;&#8230;the XBox [...]


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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Some marketers lie on purpose. You know who I&#8217;m talking about. </p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p><strong>The rest of us are tempted. </strong><br />By definition, a good marketer is an expert in creating <a href="http://www.michaelhyatt.com/fromwhereisit/2008/06/the-how-of-wo-1.html" onclick="javascript:pageTracker._trackPageview('a/http://www.michaelhyatt.com/fromwhereisit/2008/06/the-how-of-wo-1.html');">WOW experiences</a>. <br />We understand the importance of a great story. But sometimes&#8230;<br />&#8230;it&#8217;s impossible to surpass customer expectations&#8230; <br />&#8230;the competition has a better product&#8230;<br />&#8230;the deadline won&#8217;t be met&#8230;<br />&#8230;<a href="http://www.theaustralian.news.com.au/story/0,20867,22029404-36375,00.html" onclick="javascript:pageTracker._trackPageview('a/http://www.theaustralian.news.com.au/story/0,20867,22029404-36375,00.html');">the XBox has a flaw</a>&#8230; </p>
<p>That&#8217;s when <strong>stretching the truth seems the path of least resistance. </strong></p>
<p>Ever heard a fisherman tell a whopper? <br />The audience wouldn&#8217;t call it a lie. Fact is, they like the adventure&#8211;it&#8217;s fun. But they won&#8217;t trust his next story. So combine the best of both worlds. Craft a fantastically exciting story around an honest product description.
<p>The North Face is known for over-rating their sleeping bags. Their Wasatch is rated at 40 degrees, but I wouldn&#8217;t trust it below 50 degrees&#8211;with additional warm clothing! Contrast that with <a href="http://www.westernmountaineering.com/" onclick="javascript:pageTracker._trackPageview('a/http://www.westernmountaineering.com/');">Western Mountaineering</a>, a company known for under-rating their bags. Funny thing&#8211;I&#8217;ve never slept in a sleeping bag from either manufacturer. <strong>Word gets around.</strong> One over-rated product affects the entire brand.</p>
<p>Being honest isn&#8217;t morally wrong. Lying is. If you don&#8217;t have a game-changing story, don&#8217;t exaggerate. Hope isn&#8217;t reality. Reporting bad news isn&#8217;t bad.&nbsp; </p>
<blockquote><p>Be the first to tell the client bad news (e.g., slipped delivery); his intelligence sources will tell him fast—you want to be there first with your story and to enhance your rep as truthteller! - Tom Peters</p>
</blockquote>
<p><strong>It may not be your fault, but it is now your problem. </strong>Transform the obstacle into an <a href="http://www.404errorpages.com/404-advice.htm" onclick="javascript:pageTracker._trackPageview('a/http://www.404errorpages.com/404-advice.htm');">opportunity</a>. </p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>Soon, you will be tempted. <br />Not to lie, but to stretch the truth. <br />Unfortunately, that&#8217;s the same thing.<br /><strong>Don&#8217;t!</strong></p>


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The same responses happen when you market to consumers. Seth Godin is a genius for reminding marketers to mind their manners, and [...]


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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Not all neighbors are as friendly as Mr. Rogers. While some invite you in for a cup of tea, others limit you to the porch. A few merely gawk from behind shuttered windows. </p>
<p>The same responses happen when you market to consumers. Seth Godin is a genius for reminding marketers to <a href="http://www.sethgodin.com/permission/" onclick="javascript:pageTracker._trackPageview('a/http://www.sethgodin.com/permission/');">mind their manners</a>, and <a href="http://www.fastcompany.com/magazine/14/permission.html" onclick="javascript:pageTracker._trackPageview('a/http://www.fastcompany.com/magazine/14/permission.html');">ask permission</a> rather than barging in. </p>
<p><strong>But you can&#8217;t afford &#8220;yes&#8221; or &#8220;no&#8221; answers when asking permission.</strong> </p>
<p>You&#8217;ll either forgo deep relationships by staying on the porch, or have only a few relationships with those willing to share a cup of tea. Instead, find a way to <strong>build the deepest-possible, permission-based relationship</strong> with both the gawkers and Mr. Rogers. </p>
<p>Offer more than two answers when you ask permission. <strong><em>Add another channel.</em></strong></p>
<p>Allow Mr. Rogers to invite you into the house. Allow the gawkers to feel comfortable lurking. Provide a highly personalized e-mail list, and an informative (and anonymous) website.
<p>Vary the frequency. <br /> Provide a daily RSS feed and an annual e-mail list. <br />Create a daily Twitter feed for your <a href="http://twitter.com/Techstars" onclick="javascript:pageTracker._trackPageview('a/http://twitter.com/Techstars');">group</a>.</p>
<p>Unfortunately, <strong>most consumers don&#8217;t even know what they want.</strong> Offer them three choices, and most will pick the middle. (Tip: <a href="http://ben.casnocha.com/2008/05/offer-three-opt.html" onclick="javascript:pageTracker._trackPageview('a/http://ben.casnocha.com/2008/05/offer-three-opt.html');">Define the middle</a>.) Restaurant menus are great examples of this. Most menus have four (or more) price-levels.</p>
<p>The final twist: <strong>Consumers love to feel powerful, but hate making decisions.</strong> So provide choices, but not too many. Don&#8217;t annoy people by asking whether they&#8217;ll allow you two steps inside their house or three. Besides, the less you push their boundaries, the less threatened they feel&#8211;<strong>they shouldn&#8217;t be second-guessing their choice</strong>. </p>
<p>Build a decision process that customers <a href="http://www.jeffwidman.com/blog/2008/03/21/do-your-customers-want-to-believe/" >enjoy</a>. A good restaurant menu makes ordering fun! </p>


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		<title>Your story: Does it provoke answers or state them?</title>
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In January, I spent a week with Genie Industries participating in a kaizen event. This week was special&#8211;Genie paid a lean manufacturing Sensei upwards of $30k to supervise. (Shingijitsu&#8217;s website looks like crap&#8230; Yet my Genie contact told me, &#8220;We&#8217;re working hard to wine/dine them&#8211;otherwise they&#8217;ll fire us.&#8221; That&#8217;s abnormal.)

I&#8217;ll never forget asking the Sensei [...]


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<p>In January, I spent a week with <a href="http://www.genieindustries.com/" onclick="javascript:pageTracker._trackPageview('a/http://www.genieindustries.com/');">Genie Industries</a> participating in a kaizen event. This week was special&#8211;Genie paid a lean manufacturing Sensei upwards of $30k to supervise. <br />(Shingijitsu&#8217;s <a href="http://www.shingijutsu.co.jp/indx_e.htm" onclick="javascript:pageTracker._trackPageview('a/http://www.shingijutsu.co.jp/indx_e.htm');">website</a> looks like crap&#8230; Yet my Genie contact told me, &#8220;We&#8217;re working hard to wine/dine them&#8211;otherwise <a href="http://sethgodin.typepad.com/seths_blog/2006/04/the_customer_is.html" onclick="javascript:pageTracker._trackPageview('a/http://sethgodin.typepad.com/seths_blog/2006/04/the_customer_is.html');">they&#8217;ll fire us</a>.&#8221; That&#8217;s abnormal.)</p>
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<p>I&#8217;ll never forget asking the Sensei a question; he grabbed my arm, moved to the middle of the process, planted me there, and said &#8220;Watch. What do you see?&#8221; <strong>The more questions I asked, the more questions he asked me.</strong> My brain spun. <strong>I learned.</strong></p>
<p>I was reminded of <a href="http://www.twistimage.com/blog/archives/seth-godin-knows-marketing-and-more/" onclick="javascript:pageTracker._trackPageview('a/http://www.twistimage.com/blog/archives/seth-godin-knows-marketing-and-more/');">this quote</a>:</p>
<blockquote><p>After Seth&#8217;s keynote this morning, I reviewed the notes that I was taking&#8230; <em>The notes had nothing to do with what he was saying and everything to do with a fistful of creative sparks that were inspired by what he was saying.</em> - Mitch Joel</p>
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<p>Did you catch that? <br />Seth&#8217;s talk cast vision without constraining the answers. <br />Communicating like this requires discipline&#8211;<strong>it&#8217;s easier to tell people what to do than to patiently inspire them. </strong></p>
<p>Where does your brain go after reading this story?</p>
<blockquote><p>8 sec&#8217;s left in the third period; America 6, Religion 7. God loses the puck at center ice, Charlton picks it up. Heston shoots, Jesus saves! - <a href="http://twonotesahead.wordpress.com/" onclick="javascript:pageTracker._trackPageview('a/http://twonotesahead.wordpress.com/');">Aidan Nulmann</a> via Twitter</p>
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<p>In 140 characters, Aidan got me thinking about America and religion. <strong>For twenty minutes.</strong> If he&#8217;d written a 4-page article, I&#8217;d have left after two paragraphs.</p>
<p>Listen to your market. <br />Discern their needs. <br />Collaborate on the answers&#8211;<strong>clarify </strong>the problem, and <strong>get out of the way.</strong> <br />(Be <a href="http://www.ericdigests.org/1995-1/think.htm" onclick="javascript:pageTracker._trackPageview('a/http://www.ericdigests.org/1995-1/think.htm');">patient</a>.)</p>
<p>Leverage their brilliance.</p>


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